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Kevin’s Key to Being an Outsider: Own It!

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Kevin Wolfhard (@kwolfhard) knows what’s up!

If you’ve ever felt like a freak or an outsider, what helped you through it?

“Always…and essentially, I mean it took me quite a lot of time to sort of figure this out, but if you don’t own being a dork, being a weirdo, being a misfit, being an outsider…it’s, you can’t live life like that.

So if you just own it, it’s the best thing in the world. It’s who you are, right? This is why I dance at the Fox. It’s the ultimate expression of who I am as a person.”

I was feeling super crappy today (damn you PMS and a lack of sunlight), so I am so thankful to Kevin for his unbelievably wise words, because they boosted me up and reminded me of what’s important in life.

Owning who you are (which I find challenging to do all the time, but it feels so good when I do own who I am) is the best way to cope with feeling like a freak!

If you want to look at some gorgeous photos, please follow Kevin on Instagram: @kwolfhard. 

Steph: Sexy Stems and Sound Advice

Words of wisdom: “Don’t shy away from feeling alone sometimes, because it’s super important in  how you figure out who you are.”

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“I’ve definitely felt like a freak and an outsider…I love fashion, and I love personal expression. And I think as a young, adult female trying to figure a way out about your look and everything like that, it can be really hard, so I think my advice, or like what helped me, is just to like give in to what you like. And like, there’s people out there, so stick with it.”

I noticed Steph while on campus at UBC today because she’s very beautiful. I’m so glad I approached her for an interview though instead of just admiring her from afar, because she is also very sweet and intelligent. Steph knows what’s up!

 

Michelle Makes Me Laugh

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On my way to use the steam room at Mount Pleasant Community Centre on this beautiful day I noticed Michelle and her friend adding some vibrant colours to bright-up Main Street. I stopped to ask if I could interview her…and the rest is history!

In Michelle’s opinion if you haven’t felt like a freak or an outsider then “you’re doing something wrong”! I love it. Well-said. On a side note, I ended up finding out that Michelle has owned Antisocial Skateboard Shop for the last 14 years.

I’m not a skateboarder, but I absolutely adore the shop’s name, and yeah, it is nice to meet a female business owner (I wish it wasn’t noteworthy, but I still don’t think it’s the norm…especially in the typically male-centred world of skateboarding).

 

Chattin’ It Up with the Ravishing Rachel

This afternoon, I went out in search of someone to interview and Rachel caught my eye. Due to the cold weather these days, my style is closest to that of a stereotypical soccer Mom (I often choose borderline-frumpy clothes over what’s fashionable), so I admired Rachel’s ability to look incredibly stylish and pulled-together on this chilly November day.

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Anyways, Rachel let me interview her and she was awesome to talk to!

If you’ve ever felt like a freak or an outsider, what helped you through it?

“I’ve totally felt like a freak and an outsider. And I would say the thing that helped me through it the most was my amazing friends, and music, and going to see music with my amazing friends.”

Also, Rachel’s favourite place to shop is Oak and Fort. So, if you want to emulate Rachel’s style, take a gander at Oak and Fort.

Rachel signed off with a simple, “Hi world!” Great attitude. Thanks Rachel!